Wednesday, June 5, 2013

remembering back...


 
I sat out on the screened in porch this morning to have breakfast.
I haven't done that for two years!
 
As I was sitting there I started thinking about how everything came to be.
I thought about Kyle, Todd's cousin, 
and how he almost killed himself on the tractor down by the creek!
And all of the endless hours Todd, me, Paps, my brother and Tom put in to planning~and then finishing the screened in porch, deck railing and veranda because our contractor took our money and ran!
 
The design is not elaborate or something that belongs in a magazine
rather it's the product of a lot of hard work and
endless laughs with those we love.
I feel so blessed when I'm out here and just wanted to put it in my virtual scrapbook
to remember years later. 
 
So much has changed and grown!
 

 
This screened porch area is one of them.
We used to just have pavers
(that now make up the walkway to the detached garage)
in a large square making up our backyard entertaining area
right off of our kitchen doors.
 
Todd came up with this outdoor space when we decided we wanted to put in a pool
and USE our beautiful backyard!
 
 
I didn't want a sun room because I wanted to BE OUTSIDE!
I wanted a room where we could be soakin' wet and still feel like we could use it.
 
We also didn't want to lose our view so we made sure that we put in tall ceilings.

 
We tried to keep it maintenance free by putting in a Trex Deck in the screened in porch
and out on the hot tub deck.
I also wanted a little of Fripp in my backyard so the railing mimics the porches in Fripp.
 
 
Next, we wanted an outdoor living area.
So, Todd designed this Veranda.
 
I wanted to have columns on the front of the house but they didn't make the final cut.
But, Todd more than made up for it when he decided to use columns to hold up the ceiling of the Veranda!
 
 
I like how it is all compact and how the pool is right off of the veranda :)
 
 
It has a gas grill, again Todd's idea, that is placed
perfectly under the ceiling but the back sticks out enough not to smoke the inside.
I grill year round!
 
And new this year is the fire pit/cocktail table.
We have already had to fill up the propane tank because this
Spring has been so cold!
It's a hit! The boys love it!
 
The picture below was taken the second year we had the pool
look at the Arborvitae here...

 
 
...and now!
If you look at the "tiki torch" you can see how much they have grown.
They still have a long way to go!
 
 
I'm sure glad that the MARCH snow didn't hurt them.
They are actually healthier than ever and grew a ton!

 
 I have four Japanese Maples in my landscaping.
 
One of my favorite trees.
This Japanese Maple was planted 11 years ago and was moved to this spot
when we put the pool in 6 years ago.
Kyle helped me move it on my birthday,
which is in DECEMBER,
 and worked patiently with me to get it just right.
 
The hosta underneath are from my friend Julie's garden when she lived in Anderson.
I love the variegated greens mixed with the purples in the tree and the Purple Palace plants.
 
 
The March snow on its branches was so pretty that morning.
 
 
 
I love this view.
I can always remember Kyle putting in this walkway.
These were the pavers that were first used for our back patio.
I love the curves.
This morning's view...
 
 
...and this was back in 2009.
 
 
Look at how small the Holly's (right) were.
 
 
And I am so glad that Tom made me some window boxes.
They really dress it up!
 


 
This morning shooting west.
 
 
Same view in 2009.
Todd added the little white picket fence two years ago and
again, the window boxes make such a difference!
 
 
Coming back up the walk to the deck and pool area.
I have double red knock out roses, a pink dogwood tree,
and hydrangea's.
 
 
 Speaking of Hydrangea's...look at all of those blooms!!!
 
 
2009.
It just takes time for everything to grow.
You have to be patient and give the plants some TLC.
 
Picture Kiely took during Graham's Open House.
 
 
 2009
 
 Moving out of the backyard and on to the north side I have added some new plants.
 
 
I planted these Ruby Spice Summersweet bushes this year.
They will have rosy pink flowers
(in the shape of a bottle brush)
that are fragrant and will attract hummingbirds.
 
 
I used to have variegated red twig dogwoods, but they
only looked good in the spring and always got black spot and lost their leaves in the summer.
I cut them way back last spring and they didn't make it through the winter.
 
 
 
 This was back in the winter of 2009.
I did love the color they gave in the blah of wintertime.
 
 
Hopefully they will be a better fit for this area.
Just behind them are some more knock out roses that I had planted in my yard at Fripp...
 
 
but the deer kept eating them!
This is a picture of them when they were at Fripp.
I brought them home and even let them sit out for awhile until I decided to try to
plant them here.
You simply cannot kill these!
 
I also have them here...
 
 
 
Just below the hot tub deck.
And...

 
 
 
...on the south side of the house.
These used to be by the mailbox but I transplanted them last Fall.
 
I also separated and transplanted the lilies you see in the background.
 
 
To the backyard woods line.
I just can't part with any of them because they belonged to my friend Kim's Dad.
 
 
He passed away a few years ago
 
 
and these were planted in his cutting garden.
I gave some to Kim last year when I was splitting and transplanting.
 
 
And speaking of splitting and transplanting...
I was given three coral bell plants by a client of mine and now have them all over!
I love how they attract hummingbirds.
 
We have a set of windows in the basement and while I was sitting on the sofa
I saw a hummingbird feed off of one of the coral bells.
 
And speaking of basement windows...

 
I have five windows and an empty window well so of course I had to add flowers!
 
 
They add so much color and I love the way they reflect off of the granite island top :)
 
 
I'm so glad that it's summer!
 

 
And these boys are too!
I hope that you have a great one and make lots of memories.
 

Monday, June 3, 2013

graham's graduation weekend :)

 
It all started with Graham's open house party on Friday night.
Since it had rained all morning and most of the afternoon
by 2:00 pm, four hours until party time,
the boys, my mom and I started to clean out the garage to set up tables in there
instead of out on the back lawn.
 
 
 
Graham's tables
 
(thanks to my sweet Kiely I have all of these pictures to share of the open house)
 
 
So, our DENTIST made all of the pork...
I bet you wish your dentist did crowns, cleanings AND pork! lol!
It was wonderful!!
 
 
And my neighbor and friend made the salads...YUM!
Thank you soooo much, Leslie :))
 
 
I made sure that I had some kid friendly food :)
(along with some goldfish and little bags of desserts)
 
 
And thanks to my mom for picking up the Ã©clairs and cream puffs for me!!
 

 
It turned out to be a beautiful evening and I wish that everyone could have been together outside,
but I was just thankful that the rain had stopped!
 
 
Graham did a really good job trying to get around to see everyone.
Here he is hugging his Aunt Kathy.


 
Here he is talking to my very good friend, Tina.
 
 
Evan got to talk with her too.
Be sure to tell Em thanks for her LSAT books!!
 

Karen, Tom and Graham
 
Such a great picture!
Once again, Tom we could not have done it without you!
Thank you for all of your help :)

 
 Graham, ?, Christian and Quinn

Christian and Quinn grew up down the road.
It was so good to see these boys.

 
 This is a picture of Graham and Quinn when they went to Kings Island a few years ago.
Quinn has grown into such a TALL handsome young man!



Marc and Kristen came with their sweet kids.
I knew that there were going to be some kids so I made sure that I had some coloring
books to give them.

(look at baby Bennett's BIG eyes!)

 
 I loved all of the hugs from this sweet girl :))

 
 Some of Graham's favorite teachers from High School.
Mr. Thomas was his AP Government/Econ teacher and
"Steph" was his Honors English teacher and he ate lunch
(with three other friends) in her classroom every day for a couple years.


And Mrs. Wright (in the pink) was Graham's
Spanish teacher but more importantly she let Graham use her room for his locker!

And I spy Tony (left) taking out the trash...do I have the best neighbors/friends
OR WHAT!


One of my dearest friends, Julie whom I always count on for
"kitchen help"!
Thank you so much for ALWAYS being there for me!!



And another dear friend, Amy and her husband, Jeff who jumped right in to help!



Mom, Ellen, Jane and John


This shot shows all of Todd's aunts, uncles and cousins.
They came from all over Indiana.
Patty, in the bright pink sweater, came all the way from
Lexington, KY...I can't tell you how much it meant to see all of them here for Graham :)


My Dad talking to Don, who drove with a broken foot from Lexington, KY
to be here for Graham.
He is married to Patty (picture above).


Graham's "girlfriend" Jess ;)
She gave Graham a card and stuffed animal with chocolate kisses.


 Ariel and Graham are having a good time!


Annnddd, it looks like Evan is about to get Macy!
(look at little Drew behind Graham...he's such a big boy!)


Shelby, Graham and ummmm...
NICK the prom king photo bombing!


Ashlyn and Lizzy!



Graham and Shelby


Mom and her best friend, Jane


Gma and Kiely


Graham, Kiely, and Evan

 
Me and Kiely 
(Can I just say right now how my hairspray failed me! lol!)



Me and my boys
Your right Evan, it does look like we are having a great time ;)

 
Thank you EVERYONE for your kindness towards Graham.
What a blessing to have such wonderful family and friends!


Sunday was GRADUATION DAY!


The day that Graham has been waiting on since Evan graduated two years ago!!


Here he is walking in.

He is wearing a white and blue sash around the neck for
National Honors Society and the medals are for
Academic Honors Degree and Summa Cum Laude Degree.




He was in the front row because he had earned a Summa Degree.
This is a degree that only PHHS recognizes and offers to any Senior that
has taken the allotted AP courses and does a final project for their community
at the end of the year.
 

 
Here comes Lizzy!
 

 
She had a spot right on the end in front of our section :)
Such a sweet and pretty girl.
We are so proud of you Lizzy!
 
 
Cody, one of Graham's friends and Graham waiting to go on stage
to receive their diplomas.








He is so happy here that he forgot to stop to get his picture taken!
Graham Alan, we are so proud of all of your hard work and accomplishments!



Next, it was Lizzy's turn!


She stopped and got her picture taken :)


Turning of the tassel!


Candlelight ceremony.

There were two classmates that died from the class of 2013,
one of which was on the tennis team,
 and they honored them and then had a slideshow
of all the classmates.
Always a touching moment.


Heading out!
It's all over and on to WABASH!



 
Hugs for his momma!


And his Grandma Kay...

 
...and Mammy!
 


Gma, Shelby, Graham, Me, Kiely, Mammy
(why do I always have to stand next to the super model!lol!)

Just the girls!


We found Lizzy!





Evan and Lizzy

It is my understanding that they are no longer boyfriend and girlfriend but
are still the best of friends.
I am so glad that they will always be close and there for one another.

We went back to the house because it was too crowded at the school to take pictures.











I was so glad that we came home because these two stray doggies were
in our backyard sleeping.
Graham got them to come up and eat and drink some water.


Keily and I feeding them.


He was soooo hungry!


He was soooo tired :(


It almost looks like he is smiling :)

After some fb posting and awesome neighbors calling for help,
these two made it home.
They are from Lapel which is about 20 miles away.
There names are Max and Winston.

 
Finally, we all went out and celebrated at Stone Creek.




Graham got a free brownie sundae for dessert!


THANK YOU ALL FOR CELEBRATING GRAHAM'S GRADUATION!!


We all love you so much, Buddy!


My two boys are ALL grown up!
I can't wait to see where God leads and uses them :)